When do you know?

When do you know you’re with the right person? I can’t seem to shake this question, not even after 7 years of a relationship. Maybe that already says enough. 

Is it something you feel instantly or does it gradually grow? Have we made our “one and only” into a bigger thing than it really is, or is there really someone out there - made just for you? 

Shouldn’t everything feel right, from the first moment till the last breath you exhale. Where you don’t need to change multiple things about you, just to make a relationship work. 

When do you know? Or are we all still walking in limbo.

Just me, a cup of coffee, and a thought I can’t shake.

What’s yours?